My blogging identity is in a bit of a crisis. I can’t figure out who I am in the blogosphere.
As a control freak, this makes me very uncomfortable. I like to have a handle on things. I like to KNOW. Because then I can plan (oh joy do I love planning!).
But I’m quickly learning that I don’t know much when it comes to this new thing called a blog. And that I need to be patient, go with the flow, RELAX. Don’t you hate it when people say that? Like duh! I would if I could.
Some days I like to blog about pretty things. Some days I like to tell you what’s going on in my life. Some days I like to share with you interesting nuggets I’ve discovered on other blogs. Some days I get all journalist-y on you and give you itemized lists.
But I feel disjointed. Like I can’t focus, so I’m just rambling. Do you ever feel that way?
I know I’m all those things (girly, deep, curious, wannabe, etc.). So why can’t I accept that my blog is going to be all those things?
I just really admire those bloggers who seem to be really ‘have it together’ with a super niche topic that generates lots of amazing conversations. Maybe I just want too much too soon? Patience is not my virture!
I just have to focus on the fact that I’m writing. Often. Even if it’s just little bits here and there, my thoughts are becoming my words and that was the ultimate goal.
First of all, I’d like to thank you for reading. You have no idea how much it means to me to know that someone is out there. Secondly, thank you for commenting. It makes me feel like this could really grow into something. I’m loving finding all the new blogs out there and seeing what people are saying. I feel a little like the kid in the playground ‘hi I like your blog. Do you want to read mine?’ but it’s so great to push myself out of my comfort zone and go initiate contact.
On those days when it feels like I’m talking to myself, I’m going to just keep talking. Maybe I’ll get more focused. Maybe I won’t.
That’s okay. Because I’ll be doing what I love. Writing.
Written with love, Lenore
great post. I feel EXACTLY the same way. I read one time that we should write about what we love. Sooo, we are complex beings and love many different things. Perhaps some days will be personal, some superficial, some rants will go on, some will be wordless....if you control too much it won't be fun anymore, and isn't fun the whole point? creative outlet and fun!!! keep writing and having fun. people will like it or not - but I bet they will.
ReplyDeleteI love your blog. I like that every day you have something new and exciting to say. Don't worry, go with it!!! I was just telling Danielle, only moments ago that I would like to start a blog, but that I feel intimidated because there are so many good ones out there, (like yours) so don't worry, I'd admire your courage and your thoughts. I would comment on every article, but don't want to be a hog on your blog.
ReplyDeleteLove Jess
I think you're doing a great job. I don't always think it has to have a focus - I kind of like how it's different each day. Keeps us guessing! And really, if it's what's on your heart that day, then just write it. I think this makes for a more meaningful blog. If you were to 'niche' yourself, I think you'd constantly be looking for things to write instead of just sharing who you are and what you're feeling at the moment.
ReplyDeleteAnd we kinda like who you are :)
Wow. Thank you so much for your amazing comments and thank you for reading. You've pumped me up and I'm going to try to stress less and be myself more.
ReplyDeleteSo much love!
XO
Lenore
I've been a "daily" blogger for about a year and a half. I don't think focus is important. I think the important thing is writing about what interests you.
ReplyDeleteMy only rule for blogging is never apologizing for what I post. Its my blog and I'll post what I like.
You should do the same :)
I love reading all the beautiful, random, interesting things that happen in somebody else's life. Keep it up! I too have a hard time figuring out if I need to "theme" all my posts or just go with it. Five for Ten came along, and away went any super firm connection to my supposed theme (though I still think my posts from then all represent why I started blogging). Plus, some overly niched blogs seem a little "stuck" sometimes... Anyway, I'm enjoying getting to know you through your blog and am glad you're kind of random. :)
ReplyDeleteyou are not talking to yourself! We are listening! Or reading, as the case may be. :) Ramble as much as you like about whatever you like - I actually think the variety and non-nicheness is great. Keeps it interesting!!!
ReplyDeleteYou guys are so awesome! Thank you so much for your kind and gentle encouragement, I appreciate it more than you know!
ReplyDeleteThanks for reading,
XO
Lenore
I love reading you blog! I like that it is whatever comes to your mind and whatever inspires you to write. It is great.
ReplyDeleteI've been blogging for about 2 1/2 years and I still have no idea who I am. I have thought about splitting it up into two blogs so that they at least have some kind of commonality, but just too damn lazy. I would probably need 5 blogs, actually.
ReplyDeleteOh well ... keep up the good work. I'll keep an eye on you (but not in a creepy way). Ciao ..
Everyone goes through this when they blog. You're a strong writer, so just stick with your instincts and you'll be fine.
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